Friday, June 17, 2011

Suomalaisuutta Australiassa monessa sukupolvessa



Artikkeli Toini Toivasesta ja hänen monessa sukupolvessa olevasta perheestään ilmestyi Australian Suomi-lehdessä perjantaina.

Meidänkin perheemme on ollut Toinin ystävä jo viidessä sukupolvessa. Hän oli yksi isoäitini parhaimpia ystäviä, vaikka heillä olikin ikäeroa melkein 20 vuotta. Äitini ja Toini ovat hyviä ystäviä.

Kun muutimme Australiaan 90-luvulla, asuimme Toinin alakerrassa ensimmäiset kuukaudet ja niinpä minunkin tyttärilläni on henkilökohtainen ystävyyssuhde Toinin kanssa. Se on niin vahva, että yksi vanhimman tyttäreni viimeisistä ja tärkeimmistä tehtävistä ennen Suomeen paluumuuttoa oli mennä Toinia tapaamaan ja tutustuttaa hänet uuteen vauvaan.

Suomalaisuus Australiassa on siis säilymässä vaikka se onkin muuttunut omaksi finnejen yhteisöksi, omine kulttuureineen ja käyttäytymissääntöineen. 'Suomalainen" suomalaisten itsensä määritelmänä australialaisten joukossa on tarkkaan rajattu tapa elää ja olla.

Monet niistä 20000 ihmisestä, jotka kuuluvat australian suomalaisten jälkeläisiin eivät ehkä identifoi itseään samalla tavalla, eivätkä siis kuulu joukkoon, ainakaan omasta mielestään. Monet tuntevat olevansa siinä välimaissa. suomalaisten joukossa vierata ja australialaisten joukossa suomalaisia. Toiset ovat 'unohtaneet' suomalaiset sukujuurensa ja mieltävät itsensä täysin australialaisiksi. Monet ehkä miettivät sitä, että missä se raja kulkee?

Kielen säilymiskysymys on tärkeä kriteria kun mietitään missä yhteisössä on mukavinta toimia. Toininkin viidestä sukupolvesta vain hän ja hänen tyttärensä, siis kaksi ensimmäistä sukupolvea puhuu suomea ja loput ovat vieraantuneita etnisestä yhteisöstään ja identifioivat itsensä australialaisiksi, joilla on suomalainen mummu.

Toini on kyllä ihanne suomalaisten mummojen joukossa Australiassa. Hänestä kannattaa ottaa oppia mummouden alalla muidenkin.

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Thursday, June 16, 2011

Yksinäisen päivän runo




Tänä päivänä olen yksin
tänä päivänä yksin oon.
Tänä päivänä yksinäisyys vaivaa
se kelju tunne on.

Tänä päivänä olen ilman seuraa
vaikka seuraa tarvitsisin.
Siitä huolta ja murhetta, vaivaa
tulee minulle tuon tuostakin.

Yksin kun olen niin mietin,
missä kaikki mun rakkaimat on.
Miksi yksin olen jäänyt ja turhaa
tänä päivänä tarpoa on.

Minun kaikki on rakkani menneet
tuonne toiselle puolelle maan
ja ystävät läheiset ovat
kaikki kotonaan yksin, hekin vaan.

Vaikka yksinäisyys nyt mua vaivaa,
Ihan sairaaksi tehnyt se on,
Silti täällä olen ja yksin
minun täytyy olla kun
sitä yksinäisyyttä suurta
nyt pääse en pakenemaan.

En minnenkkään, enkä kuinkaan
ennenkuin minäkin joudan lähtemään
Sinne toiselle puolelle maailmaa.

Mielenkiintoista luettavaa yksinäisyyden tilasta ja lyriikasta:
Taimela, Sari (2007) Yksinäisyyden avaruus. Yksinäisyyskokemuksen tilat "yksin"-kirjoituskilpailun aineistossa.Lisensiaatintutkimus. Nykykulttuurin tutkimuskeskus. Jyväskylän yliopisto
https://jyx.jyu.fi/dspace/handle/123456789/22346

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Sunday, June 12, 2011

Notes from Partnering - Above and Below the Line – Workshop

Last week, I and 20 others were lucky to spend two fascinating days in a workshop about partnering fascilitated by Ian Dixon (Dixon Partnerships Solutions) and Max Hardy (Twyfords). They are specialists in engaging people in partnerships.

About a year ago they formed a successful trainer partnership and have since trained Primary Health Partnership Council members and their prospective partners around Queensland on how to set up partnerships and engage in meaningful and strategic conversations with each other. Through these conversations the eventual partners gain skills in creating, developing and sustaining productive initiatives that contribute to the health and wellbeing of their communities.

I was astounded that there is so much to learn about this. I found that there actually is a structure to building strong partnerships. The workshop proved to be a very enlightening experience. Until now I have just gone from the assumption that to form relationships and engage in conversations is human nature. But now I know that some are far better at it than others. Not only that but engaging skills can be sharpened and used constructively.



I have always been good at networking and have understood that building and maintaining relationships is a natural part of my work in the community. However, as a skilled engineer, Ian has dissected the process of building relationships. He has made it to a structured process that can be used to form and build strong and healthy partnerships that are productive until it is time to ‘move on’. Ian’s way of structuring the partnering course of action is very useful and practical. I am looking forward to applying the acquired learning to my daily work practices.

Ian and Max work very well together. They have combined their skills in workshop practice and can really engage participants. Max is the social worker of the duo.

In the workshop he facilitated the exercises around the partnership building by introducing us to such very useful relationship creating and building tools as ‘Appreciative Inquiry’ and ‘Strategic Questioning’. “Research shows”, he explained, “that the way surveys and enquiries are laid out affect the results.”

Well, we knew that, but it was a surprise to get to know that the very process of the enquiry affects ‘how we are’. It is better to enquire into positives of experiences than fix the problems with negatives.

We were introduced to David L. Cooperrider (2003) and Fran Peavey (1994) and their thought processes in enquiring about the positive in human experience and putting their questions in such a forward thinking way that it contributes to the desired outcomes. We then practiced our newly acquired skill in groups. It was a well-organised learning curve for us all. In just two days we came out with a highly useful practical skill set. We also met new people and formed new relationships.

For me, this is always the best part of the workshops I participate in, getting to know everybody, sharing experiences and stories. I am looking forward to receiving newsletters and connecting with my new prospective partners through work and through social media.


References:
COOPERRIDER, D. L. & WHITNEY, D. 2003. Appreciative Inquiry: A Positive Revolution in Change, San Francisco, Berrett-Koehler Publishers.

PEAVEY, F. 1994. By Life's Grace: Musings on the Essence of Social Change, USA: New Society Publishers.

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Notes from the ‘Communities in Control Conference' in Melbourne, Part 2

The Main Conference, May 29-30


In hindsight, the first thing I can say about the ‘Communities is Control’ Conference, 2011 is that I am really happy about being able to have taken part in it. ‘My Community’ has done a lot of work in providing the Australian Not-for-Profit (NFP) Sector and particularly the community organisations with a conference that as closely as possibly strives to meet our current needs for networking and updates us about the changing climate on where we work today. Without this conference I would have had to go to great lengths in trying to find out about the burning issues that many organisations are facing today while reviewing the sector or our changing relationship with the different layers of Government.

Sitting two days in a conference with about 1000 other people from all over Australia, often engaged in conversations was not such a hardship at all and I am considered a conference pro.

The second thing I noticed when coming to register was the people who had come to partake in the conference. They seemed to be from all walks of life. So many different kinds of communities were represented. It was easy to start a conversation with anybody and everybody. In fact, one didn’t need to know anybody beforehand to make friends.

For a Queenslander and a student at the Australian Centre for Philanthropy and Not-for-Profit Studies at QUT, it is quite interesting that I had to come to Melbourne to listen to Linda Lavarch talking about the Government’s aims in straightening up the tangle of regulations and laws in relation to the Australian Not-for-Profit Sector. She currently is a research fellow at QUT and also is the Chair of the Australian Government Not-for-Profit Sector Reform Council.

According to Linda, this Government, instead of just talking is ready for action in harmonising regulations, striving to cut the red tape and straightening out the prevalent problems of the NFP Sector.

The good news is that the Government has already installed the Office for NFP Sector. It will engage with the Sector as a whole with four working groups and look into:

• National Compact
• Harmonising legislation
• Reducing red tape
• National regulations

There will also be an overview of the definition of charitable organisation.

The other highlights for me on the first day were the Joan Kirner Social Justice Speech delivered to us from Brussels by Sharon Burrow, who is there as the General Secretary of International Trade Union Confederation (ITUC). She strongly advocated the international work the unions are doing in highlighting the blight of many nations in their treatment of the workforce, particularly women. The role of ITUC was also highlighted in its role of advancing social justice and equality to the world’s workforce. As a Finn, I was delighted to hear that President Halonen from Finland might have a future leadership role to play in this after she completes her time as President next year.

As a Queenslander it was also interesting to observe the role The Hon. Joan Kirner, the former Victorian Premier and the current Community Sector Ambassador to Australia, plays in the whole conference, not only through the social justice oration but through the warm atmosphere surrounding her and her ease in striking conversations with different members of My Community leading people as well as all the invited speakers.

As a newcomer to the community sector conferencing in Australia, it is interesting to observe that we have here a person who is highly respected and has a huge impact on the way the sector is conducting its business. As a historian, I can only remember similar kinds of conferences that I have participated in where one particular person has had such an impact in the women’s liberation movement during the 1980’s where the huge ‘feminist legends’ were still taking part in the conferences. It is clear from the conference that Joan Kirner is one of the big runner-ups for women’s advocacy in the Australian context.

I also enjoyed Hugh Mackay’s speech on his just published book What Makes Us Tick? It presented 10 social desires that we as human beings are subject to and that affect our community. It caused huge lines afterwards at the stand where his books were sold. It can be said to his credit that he signed every one of them, even though mine was the second last and he was already standing up as the next session was starting.

Miriam Lyons was a little bit fast in her speech pattern for me to catch everything she was saying about the book called More Than Luck but she was very witty and I was absolutely delighted to observe her smile and the first thing for me, when I get home is to download the book as a free eBook on the Website.

The last delight on the first day was the Choir of Hope and Inspiration [previously the Choir of Hard Knocks]. We heard the first ever performance of their first musical which will be performed in September.





The second day went from strength to strength.

Phil Ruthven presented us with a lot of statistics and forecasts for the future. Basically he said that we are now at the height of our lives in what comes to health, life longitude, wealth and wellbeing and it is only getting better. There will be more wealth, longer life expectancy and more health. That is the upside; the downside is that there will be a lot of change.

But we do thrive on change as human beings anyway, so the forecast is good, if we take it as such and apply a healthy ‘grain of salt’ to our expectations.

His speech very much made me to want to live longer in order to see for myself if he is right in his predictions. Living to 100 just might not do it. To succeed, that means that I now have to make sure to apply all the possible new inventions in health and wellbeing which he forecasts to be many.

The absolute highlight of the second day was the launching of Advancing Women: Women and the Order of Australia and the speech made thereafter by Elizabeth Broderick, Sex Discrimination Commissioner and Commissioner Responsible for Age Discrimination.

What has been the best part in the conference was meeting new friends. Even though we know that all the speeches will be online afterwards and that books can and will be bought the personal dimension of actually being there, participating in the discussions, meeting others, networking and starting to build those important relationships. There is nothing that can take away that.

It proves the point Hugh Mackay said about the desire to be connected. Through participating in this conference, we have strengthened our belief in grass roots communities and our conviction that people have power to influence change.

The conference organisers are very proud of the fact that with the help of Victorian Government funding and other sponsors, this conference has the lowest entrance fee of them all. That actually was reinforced time after time with conversations across the room as many told me that their boards did prefer to send them to Melbourne than pay an entrance fee in the nearer city, as counting together flights, accommodation and food with the entrance fee, the Communities in Control Conference still costs less than other competing conferences available during this month. Interestingly enough I was unable to find it on LinkedIn. Hopefully that will be amended next year.

Our new ties with the original ‘early bird’ group on Sunday held to the second day. It was nice to be able to say ‘good morning’ to people you know already and exchange experiences with them from time to time during the conference.

I also ran into friends from Queensland. There were many as a matter of fact. Observably, judging from the question times and counting the numbers, the Queensland participants to the conference were close to Victorian numbers.

All and all this was a very delightful conference experience, worthy of replay and recommending to others.